Dear Practical LOA #15

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Dear PLOA: Can the LOA give me..?
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I’ve been getting a lot of emails in the last couple of weeks from members of the Practical LOA family about how to use LOA to get their ex’s back.

Technically, the LOA doesn’t physically brings us anything, but using it as part of the Law of Creation formula can.

Semantics aside, the short answer is Yes.

But… at the root of it, that is the wrong question to ask for 99.9% of the people who ask anything similar to the question that came from Australia:

“Kane, is it possible to use the LOA to re attract my ex back to me ,,,or can the LOA only be used to bring A relationship?”

This is an excellent question that leads to a very useful discussion on what our desires truly are and how to define them in ways that ultimately bring us what we really want.

Find out why this is the wrong question for 99.9% of askers.

Then find out the 3 ways of defining our desires and when to use each one.

Hi [XXXXXX],

It is possible to use the LOA to attract a specific person, but it is not necessarily recommended. Although, it could be, depending on your situation.

There are 3 ways to define what we want: Specific, general, and feelings.

Before, I clarify, let me first say that the LOA does not bring in specific things. It brings in things that match the vibration of your desire.

It could be that the only thing that matches your vibration is your ex, but it could also mean that you will manifest someone very similar to your ex. This is why often times many people break up with their partners, only to move on and date essentially the "same person."

Specific is great when there is a great abundance of whatever we are looking for. There are thousands and thousands of new Mercedes E Class sedans in existence, for example.

The challenge of defining our desire specifically, is that we may find that we don't really want what it is that we attracted in. Using the same example, I may use the LOA to get a Mercedes E Class, only to find that I really don't enjoy the way it handles on the roads I drive every day.

General is a great way when our desire is rare, or there are only a few in existence. So rather than saying, I MUST have, and use the LOA to get, the house at 1234 Main St, it's better to generalize. "I would love a home that is 2 stories high with 4-5 bedrooms, 5-6 bathrooms, and at least 4000 square feet. A yard and a swimming pool would be wonderful."

If you try to force a specific thing when there is only one or a few in existence, you create a lot of resistance and not a lot of room to work with. It makes things much more difficult to manifest, especially when there is a lot of competing counter-intention; If 50 other people are saying, "No, you can't have that house. I want the house at 1234 Main St," the LOA is going to "not work" for 50 of you…

Although in reality, it will work in a way that is ultimately a vibrational match to all 51 of you.

Usually, the best way to define our desires is as a general feeling. "I want a great home that makes me and my family feel safe, secure, free, and loved."

Imagine, no matter what sort of home manifests for you, you and your family would always be safe and happy. That's a great home.

So, back to your specific question.

There is only 1 of your ex in existence. You could use the LOA to get her back. But she may be giving counter intention. Other suitors may be giving counter intention. And even if you persevere, you may just find out you actually didn't want to be with her at all.

You may find that you want to be with someone who makes you feel loved. Who appreciates and accepts the way you demonstrate your love. Who recognizes you, appreciates you, thinks of you. Who makes you feel so happy and you make her happy as well. Whom you have an amazing relationship and sex life with. Who enjoys all the same things you do. Who is on the same page as you and is going in the same direction in life. Who happily supports you in all your goals and is compatible with you in every way...

You may find that you actually desire a specific feeling and relationship rather than a specific person.

Once again, that's not to say your ex is not the one whom that relationship and feelings will be with... I, myself, got the love of my life "back" after nearly 12 years apart... and we have an amazing, blessed, and joyous life together.

If you define your desire as your ex, you will attract in your ex or someone very similar.

If you define your desire as the feeling you want to have when you get your ex back... you'll either get her back or something better.

Hope that helps. Blessings and best of luck!
Kane